Although I am not anti-beating ", which means I want to emphasize that the collision produced with a child that leads to children with less respect and bad manners. Consistence, the punishment is not necessarily physical, respect, well-trained well, helped children. The real problem with young people "today" that you describe has nothing to do with the parents of spanking and everything to do not with their parents, parents do ... establish standards and guidelines and you remain firmly focused . I'm not saying I would never beat my child because I am sure there are times when a SWAT is fast on the ground or a slap on the hand of an appropriate sentence. But at the same time (not the punishment, many in the movement Spank you prefer, these "consequences" call), the equally if not more effective if they are consistent.
My father used his belt to us, if he behaved badly injured. My mother has never done so. Never done better for my mother, as we have it for my father, despitedo not normally use physical punishment on us. And because I knew I would say that our father when he came home and beat up, it's because my father was in the Navy and for months at a time gone abroad a child. The key to our performance, our parents were both very clear about what are the rules and the consequences of breaking (eg punishment) to apply these rules and consequences have been every time the rule was broken. In fact, the only crime worse than our childhood, the flight of the K-Mart and then lie about this, never to be punished by one of our parents, beatings with a costume. You made it clear that they were very disappointed in us, ground us, is to copy us Theft theft "sign that published in the toilet of the store and had a family was sitting with the pastor and one of the things for themselves (not to mention all together) was sufficient to have us feel worse and even more sorry for our actions than any rece EyelashesEdvi.
This is a new paradigm. They come from time to time. Not much you can do about it is how the world. And I personally welcome this change, then I do not mean you can keep hoping for the "Glory Days", otherwise he would be back in the days of eating computer the size of a room or d 'stop raw meat.
There is only so much you can do the parents. I think that many of today's problems are not caused by the lack of a strict father, and the effect of social influences. I mean, 60 years ago, we are talking about 50 years. That was before the hippies, LSD, Vietnam was the war, "Make love not war" campaigns. That was before the Cold War had been very ill - think Red Scare of the McCarthy era, and before that people use media to promote their programs as if it was popular. That was before the civil rights movement, and before it is illegal to separate the different races and oppress ethnic minorities.
But after the 50s, is a time of challenge for the authorities were corrupt and said his name. Today it is a little different, because now they have become a nuisance have sex, but I think the reasons for the revolution, anti-authority, or whatever it was called, while protecting individual rights people.
As much as I believe that is strictly to be important in the development of a childI also believe that there are times when you only have to give them some leniency. The parents are not entitled to 100%, after all, so sometimes I just let the kids make decisions for themselves. I mean, you say, not his son what to do and what not to do the rest of your life are you? Is this the kind of person you want your child to grow up - someone who depends on what kind of advice and can not function without them?
I think the role of parents, the child in the right direction to steer - and make a subtle, but important, as not to keep guns so easily available at home - or any other kind of weapons around the case of the election good area to live and go to good schools and be there to talk to your child if he or she needs.
Yes, I do not do the butt spank when my child or lease mathematics. Sample. my wife try to stop my clothes Chang Doughtie every 2 minuets, refuse, and after he had to leave my wife until they give up, and I asked to stop my 5-year-old daughter. and then I say, I say no, ask again and again refused, so they my knees i spanker pouted a little behind her, and I want to quit refused to do so, and his strong accent and a thirst for 4 on while Finlay OK. then never again, after donation is spanking clean short time, it is allowed, but no children flock min No, no, no. All children must be different, you disciplined a few bums in the future have. We see it in 99% during the day as sick days children naked children for children is nothing vague Heath unattended
not to mention the screaming parents say, were attacked and knocked on the door, leaving a single mother, wondering where it went wrong .... Well, I think you will agree with respect. I sometimes yah, but children can have a good pop in a hurry to use. consistencey and what is right. A parent can say verbally, the child for a first offense that does not happen again because otherwise the consequences could be worse. I like your comment and I will share this story with my boyfriend. The Physics Punisher disadvantages. Personally, if my son was talking on my own, while the discipline to have a surprise on his lips. say.
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Although I am not anti-beating ", which means I want to emphasize that the collision produced with a child that leads to children with less respect and bad manners. Consistence, the punishment is not necessarily physical, respect, well-trained well, helped children. The real problem with young people "today" that you describe has nothing to do with the parents of spanking and everything to do not with their parents, parents do ... establish standards and guidelines and you remain firmly focused . I'm not saying I would never beat my child because I am sure there are times when a SWAT is fast on the ground or a slap on the hand of an appropriate sentence. But at the same time (not the punishment, many in the movement Spank you prefer, these "consequences" call), the equally if not more effective if they are consistent.
My father used his belt to us, if he behaved badly injured. My mother has never done so. Never done better for my mother, as we have it for my father, despitedo not normally use physical punishment on us. And because I knew I would say that our father when he came home and beat up, it's because my father was in the Navy and for months at a time gone abroad a child. The key to our performance, our parents were both very clear about what are the rules and the consequences of breaking (eg punishment) to apply these rules and consequences have been every time the rule was broken. In fact, the only crime worse than our childhood, the flight of the K-Mart and then lie about this, never to be punished by one of our parents, beatings with a costume. You made it clear that they were very disappointed in us, ground us, is to copy us Theft theft "sign that published in the toilet of the store and had a family was sitting with the pastor and one of the things for themselves (not to mention all together) was sufficient to have us feel worse and even more sorry for our actions than any rece EyelashesEdvi.
This is a new paradigm. They come from time to time.
Not much you can do about it is how the world.
And I personally welcome this change, then I do not mean you can keep hoping for the "Glory Days", otherwise he would be back in the days of eating computer the size of a room or d 'stop raw meat.
There is only so much you can do the parents. I think that many of today's problems are not caused by the lack of a strict father, and the effect of social influences. I mean, 60 years ago, we are talking about 50 years. That was before the hippies, LSD, Vietnam was the war, "Make love not war" campaigns. That was before the Cold War had been very ill - think Red Scare of the McCarthy era, and before that people use media to promote their programs as if it was popular. That was before the civil rights movement, and before it is illegal to separate the different races and oppress ethnic minorities.
But after the 50s, is a time of challenge for the authorities were corrupt and said his name. Today it is a little different, because now they have become a nuisance have sex, but I think the reasons for the revolution, anti-authority, or whatever it was called, while protecting individual rights people.
As much as I believe that is strictly to be important in the development of a childI also believe that there are times when you only have to give them some leniency. The parents are not entitled to 100%, after all, so sometimes I just let the kids make decisions for themselves. I mean, you say, not his son what to do and what not to do the rest of your life are you? Is this the kind of person you want your child to grow up - someone who depends on what kind of advice and can not function without them?
I think the role of parents, the child in the right direction to steer - and make a subtle, but important, as not to keep guns so easily available at home - or any other kind of weapons around the case of the election good area to live and go to good schools and be there to talk to your child if he or she needs.
Yes, I do not do the butt spank when my child or lease mathematics. Sample. my wife try to stop my clothes Chang Doughtie every 2 minuets, refuse, and after he had to leave my wife until they give up, and I asked to stop my 5-year-old daughter. and then I say, I say no, ask again and again refused, so they my knees i spanker pouted a little behind her, and I want to quit refused to do so, and his strong accent and a thirst for 4 on while Finlay OK. then never again, after donation is spanking clean short time, it is allowed, but no children flock min No, no, no. All children must be different, you disciplined a few bums in the future have. We see it in 99% during the day as sick days children naked children for children is nothing vague Heath unattended
not to mention the screaming parents say, were attacked and knocked on the door, leaving a single mother, wondering where it went wrong .... Well, I think you will agree with respect. I sometimes yah, but children can have a good pop in a hurry to use. consistencey and what is right. A parent can say verbally, the child for a first offense that does not happen again because otherwise the consequences could be worse. I like your comment and I will share this story with my boyfriend. The Physics Punisher disadvantages. Personally, if my son was talking on my own, while the discipline to have a surprise on his lips. say.
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